``She is someone very special to me,'' he says, introducing the
child he last saw as an infant. ``Her name is Eliana.''
More than a poetic coincidence, the Grave de Peralta family's
long-awaited reunification is a rare, happy consequence of the
Elián González saga. The family's flight from Santiago to
Miami last Friday came after an unusual campaign marked not only by the
indignation of exiles but also the cooperation of a central figure in
Elián's return to Cuba.
Grave de Peralta credits a diverse group of advocates, including
Gregory Craig, the powerful Washington, D.C., lawyer who represented
Elián's father, with helping to secure his family's release from
the island.
``My case involves a rare convergence of parties and ideologies. But
I must thank Mr. Craig, because he kept his promise to help me,'' says
Grave de Peralta, who contacted the lawyer through a mutual friend, a man
he'll identify only as ``a Cuban-American Republican from Washington.''
The 43-year-old Grave de Peralta is hardly a guy one might imagine
singing the praises of Craig, who antagonized exiles by keeping his
client, Juan Miguel González, surrounded by Cuban government
advocates and operatives, far from Miami.
Unlike Elián's father, Eliana's uncle has been highly
critical of Fidel Castro's regime. He is an esteemed Cuban dissident who
spent four years in prison for writing a manuscript deemed ``rebellious.''
He was one of three political prisoners freed after then-Congressman Bill
Richardson, D-N.M., met with Castro.
When he landed in this country, Grave de Peralta listed his
relatives on a U.S. government form. He was told his family would arrive
soon -- in fact, all were granted U.S. visas.
But those 13 relatives -- including his then-wife, their two sons,
his parents, three siblings and their families -- met the usual Cuban
snag. The government agreed to release the children, but refused permits
to Grave de Peralta's siblings, all scientists, and the mother of Grave de
Peralta's sons.
In a stroke of irony, the Castro government granted an exit permit
to little Eliana but refused one to the girl's mother. Recognizing Cuba's
game, the Grave de Peraltas refused to leave until the Cuban government
granted all of them the coveted ``white card'' exit permits.
And then came Elián González. In the heated moment,
the Castro regime purported to advocate family reunification, taking up
the case of the refugee boy's only living parent.
From his home in Lubbock, Texas, where he was working on a
doctorate, Grave de Peralta decided to seize upon Cuba's campaign. He was
not alone. In the glare of Elián, other parents began to tell their
stories of unjust separation.
In Miami, there was an equally frustrated father named
José Cohen, a Cuban defector whose parents, wife and three children
have been stranded in Cuba since his escape by raft in 1994. The Cohen
family, too, had U.S. visas but no white cards.
Once their stories became public, Grave de Peralta and Cohen joined
forces and took their campaigns to Washington, D.C., and to the U.N. Human
Rights Commission in Geneva, Switzerland.
As the battle over Elián intensified, Grave de Peralta
decided to make a desperate appeal to Gregory Craig. At first he wanted to
have a father-to-father meeting with Craig's client. But then Craig
promised to help reunite him with his family.
With the influential lawyer working behind the scenes on his behalf,
the scientist and his relatives planned their reunification. Grave de
Peralta's older son, Gabriel, 14, arrived the week after federal agents
seized Elián at gunpoint. A teenage nephew also arrived.
And Friday, after Cuban officials had granted exit permits to the
entire group, nine other relatives landed in Miami.
At the last minute, it was Grave de Peralta's ex-wife -- he divorced
and remarried two years ago -- and 8-year-old son César who stayed
behind. ``But everything is set -- they'll be coming soon,'' says Grave de
Peralta, explaining that the two stayed to care for his ex-wife's mother,
who fell ill.
Meanwhile, the influential lawyer who helped him says he is still
working behind the scenes on other cases of split families. ``It's always
a great tragedy when children are involved,'' said Craig, reached by
phone. ``There's got to be a universally understood principle that places
families first. There are no Democrats or Republicans when it comes to
family reunification.''
Is the Grave de Peralta family reunion a glimpse of what is to come
for other divided Cuban families? Did Elián's case set up a
standard that Cuba can no longer ignore?
Craig agrees it's too early to tell.
But it is a topic that is sure to be on the table as U.S. and Cuban
officials prepare to meet in Havana today for the next round of migration
talks. For months, the United States has reprimanded Cuba for its delay in
granting travel papers to the many Cubans already holding U.S. visas.
José Cohen, attending the Grave de Peralta reunion, takes a
bit of hope from what he sees at this family gathering.
Deep into the night, Eliana snuggles in her uncle's arms.
``I want to go home,'' the tired little girl tells her uncle.
``You mean the house in Cuba?'' Grave de Peralta smiles back.
``No,'' the girl replies, ``our house here.''Exile gets family in Elián plot twist
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